Posted on July 22, 2015
The summer is quickly slipping away. Summer will soon turn into fall. And whether it has been a week, a month, or a year since the loss of your loved one, you will soon realize that life still goes on. As much as we feel that the whole world should stop when our loved one dies, (for ours certainly did) the seasons continue to come and go. And we are forced to adjust.
All the feelings that overwhelm you when a loved one dies deserve your attention. They are important openings to greater awareness: about the relationship you shared, your own needs, the meaning of life. And they take time!!! They are also the steps to your recovery, for there is no way out but through. Only by letting yourself experience grief can you move beyond it. Beyond—not to your old way of being or what once was “normal”, but beyond to fully integrating loss into your life, to richer understanding, renewed purpose, and deeper spirituality.
Grieving is painful and demanding. But healing does come. The deep pain will subside and you will find yourself able to reflect on your loved one, how your life was and how it is now, and begin to think about how your life will be in the future. Personally, I lost my best friend. The void still exists when I can no longer share the excitement and pictures of my grandbaby or just pick up the phone and talk about my day! A BIG sigh …but I can testify that the pain has lessened in intensity. It no longer consumes me, but I will never forget her. She, in many ways, helped shape me into how I respond today. She will always be present in my life.
You don’t have to go through this time alone. As part of our Hospice family, please take advantage of the services we offer. I am also available by phone or appointment.
August activities at Hospice:
Aug. 10: “Lunch Bunch” at Mr. Lee’s at 12:00. Lunch on your own. It is a time of food and fellowship with others who have suffered a loss. For information, call 740-432-7440.
Aug.11: Support lunch group @ Annie K’s in Barnesville @ 11:00 am.
The breakfast support group that always met @ Mr. Lees has been cancelled until further notice.
Aug. 20: Monthly Suicide Survivor’s Support Group @ 6:00 pm @ Mr. Lee’s.
Aug. 25: Monthly Support Group @ 5:30 pm @ the Hospice office CANCELLED for the Month.
Aug. 27: Breakfast Support Group @ Patty’s Place in Caldwell @ 9:00 am
FYI: We are in the process of transitioning this mailing from paper form to computer. As of October, this calendar of events will be available online only UNLESS you let me know. I will be willing to keep you on the paper mailing list IF you request. We are trying to cut down on some expense. Sorry for any inconvenience. I hope you will look for us online at: www.hospiceofguernsey.com.
Hope to see you or talk with you soon!
Terri Wootton MSW, LISW
Bereavement Coordinator
Posted on February 13, 2015
Kids – get your paint brushes ready and your pencils sharpened. It’s time to get creative and your efforts just might brighten someone’s day. Hospice of Guernsey, Inc. is excited to announce their Moments of Life Art Contest.
There are three divisions: Elementary, Middle and High School. Submitted artwork will be displayed in Southeastern Med’s lobby from April 13 to 24 for the public to view. The winner of each division will be chosen by a “People’s Choice” ballot. After the art show has completed, the art will be donated to hospice patients to brighten their day.
Artwork must be submitted by Friday, April 3, 2015 with a completed information form. Artwork should be created on a 22 x 28 inch piece of posterboard, foamboard, cardboard, or canvas. Students are encouraged to work as a class or in groups to complete the artwork, but solo submissions will be accepted as well.
Artwork can be dropped off at Hospice of Guernsey, Inc. located at 9711 East Pike Rd., Cambridge, OH 43725. Teachers or office staff can arrange a mass pick up from your school by contacting Jenna Conaway at 740-432-7440.
Posted on July 15, 2014
Just a quick note that the Hospice of Guernsey’s Flamingo Run 5K run and 1M walk cut-off is quickly approaching. Get your registration this week and save some money! All the details can be found over on the Flamingo Run event page.
Posted on June 2, 2014
We just updated our event calendar for June’s meetings and events. The list this month includes:
- June 4th – Stepping Stones Workshop
- June 16th – Lunch Bunch Support Group
- June 19th – Men’s Breakfast
- June 19th – Suicide Survivors Support Group
- June 19th – Support Group at Lori’s Caldwell
- June 23rd – 25th – Kids Kamp
- June 24th – Support Group at the Hospice Office
Posted on May 5, 2014
Looking for a social worker to be a part of our interdisciplinary team for end of life care. We serve Noble, Guernsey, and Western Belmont counties. BSW required. (MSW preferred) Non-smoker. Monday-Friday 9:00-5:00. Excellent benefit package.
Send resume to PO Box 1165, Cambridge, OH 43725 or email to: hospiceofguernsey@firewireinternet.com by May 16, 2014.
Posted on April 15, 2014
The following support groups will be meeting on Thursday, April 17th:
- Men’s Breakfast at Mr. Lee’s Restaurant at 9:30 AM.
- Suicide Survivor’s Support Group at Mr. Lee’s Restaurant at 6:00 PM
- Grief Support Group at Lori’s Restaurant at 6:30 PM
For more information on each event, follow the links to each event’s page.
Posted on April 10, 2014
The following support groups will be meeting on Monday, April 14th:
- The Lunch Bunch will meet at Mr. Lee’s Restaurant at Noon.
- Parents Who’ve Lost Children Support Group will meet at the Hospice of Guernsey Office at 3:30 PM.
Hope everyone has a great weekend.
Posted on January 10, 2014
Wanted to post a quick reminder that there will be two support group meetings on Monday, January 13th. The Lunch Bunch will meet at 12:00 P.M. at Mr. Lee’s Restaurant in Cambridge. Parents Who’ve Lost Children group, which is a new group this month, will meet at the Hospice of Guernsey Office at 3:30 PM.